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I see that lavendertook has posted a lovely and comprehensive description of the service for Julia. I have little to add except that Julia has a very loving family who really appreciated and admired both her sweet nature and her variety of talents. (Who knew about the singing and art?!?) I spoke with her daughter Amanda and son-in-law Jeff before the ceremony to let them know that Julia's lj community was having their own memorial at the same time, and that even if they couldn't all be there in person they were with us in spirit. They were very touched and pleased.
Lots of people knew about lj and the circle of writers of which Mews was one. She obviously was proud to be part of the community and have so many friends here.
It is great to be in touch again. I apologize for not remembering even enough about how to navigate lj to be able to link lavendertook's name above! (If anybody has a cheat sheet about how to code things I'd appreciate it.)
I was very moved and a little shaken by Julia's service, partly because it reminded me so much of my own mother's funeral three weeks ago. Watching Amanda go through all the actions for which I was responsible recently made it very present again. It seems that so many people have recently had losses, and I'm sorry that my absence from lj has made me absent from the lives of people I care about. Thank you for letting me participate here. Love!
Lots of people knew about lj and the circle of writers of which Mews was one. She obviously was proud to be part of the community and have so many friends here.
It is great to be in touch again. I apologize for not remembering even enough about how to navigate lj to be able to link lavendertook's name above! (If anybody has a cheat sheet about how to code things I'd appreciate it.)
I was very moved and a little shaken by Julia's service, partly because it reminded me so much of my own mother's funeral three weeks ago. Watching Amanda go through all the actions for which I was responsible recently made it very present again. It seems that so many people have recently had losses, and I'm sorry that my absence from lj has made me absent from the lives of people I care about. Thank you for letting me participate here. Love!
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Date: 2016-10-30 06:52 pm (UTC)Hang on. Singing? Art?
There's always more to learn, isn't there :-)
♥
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Date: 2016-10-30 08:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2016-10-30 06:58 pm (UTC)Anyway, I'm also so happy for you that you got to attend Julia's service. How beautiful it sounded and how beautiful her family sounds. And yes, all those things we didn't know about Julia...
I'm so sorry about the passing of your mother. ♥ *tight hugs*
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Date: 2016-10-30 08:08 pm (UTC)Thanks for the welcome back. :)
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Date: 2016-10-30 08:10 pm (UTC)There's so much to learn about our friends, right ?
Thank you for this post, lovely. *hugs tight*
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Date: 2016-10-30 08:42 pm (UTC)Thanks for sharing this. It's comforting to hear from those of you who were able to attend the service.
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Date: 2016-10-30 09:25 pm (UTC)I'm so glad to hear from you, and I know Julia's family appreciated everyone who could be there yesterday. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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Date: 2016-10-30 10:09 pm (UTC)The tag you want is carrot signs surrounding lj-user="personyouarenaming"
I'm glad we were there yesterday for her family to feel her writing friends there loving Julia.
<3
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Date: 2016-10-30 10:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2016-10-31 06:17 am (UTC)I'm glad you made it to the service and can share your impressions of it with us.
And my condolences on the loss of your mother. I am so sorry.
*hugs*
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Date: 2016-10-31 12:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2016-10-31 09:01 am (UTC)I'm sorry to hear about your loss. *hugs you*
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Date: 2016-11-02 12:55 am (UTC)no subject
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